Slice of Life
Monday, August 20th, 2007
The ultimate story
Actor Ajith talks to ET M+ about life, movies, marriage and the book that changed his life…

Especially since Ajith is well-versed in the art of diplomacy. Over
poori and bhaji for breakfast, he opens up about what’s been on his
mind…
The background
I have been in the industry for 15 years. I dropped out of high
school and worked with an automobile manufacturer as an apprentice and
then I worked with a leading garment company. I started modeling as a
hobby - one thing led to another and soon I was on to movies. It’s been
15 eventful years and I am very content with all the successes and
failures - both have taught me great lessons.
On Kireedam
It feels good to be a part of this production house, which has
worked with the thespians of Kollywood like Sivaji Ganesan and MGR, and
decided to make a comeback with this movie after 15 years. It was also
a tie-up with Adlabs, so it had its own corporate setup. I would rate
this as one of the top five on my list of best films, as I have learnt
a lot from it. The audience has given us a mixed response so far, but
on the whole, the reviews have been good. If you ask me where the film
went wrong, I’ll say I don’t know. I’m not living in the past and it’s
anyway too early to write it off.
Growth as an actor
It’s very difficult to point out how my performance has improved over
the period that I have been here. It’s unfair to ask what I feel; I
think the verdict should be left to the audience. I think they’ll have
a better answer.
Silence over the years
I went into this self-realisation mode three to four years ago,
analysing the purpose of my being. Today the globalisation trend has
taken its toll on every field - be it sports, politics or IT. And it’s
become so competitive that people are burning out before they hit 30.
The stress levels are so high - where is the happiness? Quality of life
is important and cannot be judged by the materialistic accolades
showered on oneself.
My realisations
People either brood over the past or worry about the future. They have
forgotten to live for the moment. We are always preparing ourselves to
live well but are not living well in the current scenario. And before
you realise it, your life would have ended while you were still
preparing. I have realised that one should learn to live life for the
moment. There is no such thing as tomorrow… it’s jus an illusion.
Saying no
I’ve learnt to say no early in life. I’m not opinionated anymore, but I
mind my own business. What I say may not be acceptable so I refrain
from giving opinions. If you look at my career graph I’ve done
different genres of films - Vaali, Kadal Kottai, Varalaru, Kandukondein
Kandukodein, Citizen - I’ve consciously picked each of these films.
Making the present moment special
I don’t over commit anymore - I do one film at a time. I spend a lot of
time with crew discussing the best approach. This decision has also
given me more time to spend with my family, parents, wife and brothers.
Living with the criticsm
I believe in karma and whatever happens is the result of those
gestures, which I guess are accumulating somewhere in a karmic bank.
When you start living for the moment, things are a lot easier to
handle. So I don’t bother myself with whats being said and written
about me.
The book that changed my life
I would have laughed at the idea of having my life changed because of a
book. I met Rajnikanth sir and when I discussed what I was going
through with him, he told me that I must read Living with the Himalayan
Masters. I’d say that book has changed 70% of my life.
Preparing for different roles
I don’t want to sound clichéd, but I never really prepare for a role.
The way you prepare and the way things turn out on location could be
very different. I consciously don’t overdo things.
On Billa and other ventures
I can’t talk much about it. I don’t want to set expectations for people
and then fall short of them. The film’s rights have been bought from
its original Tamil producer and we are adapting it to our ways. My next
venture is not named yet, but I have signed up with a producer and its
going to be directed by Raju Sundaram.
On marriage and Shalini
Shalini and I have been married for seven years and we are expecting
our first child. We have our own likes and dislikes, and also have our
share of arguments. Any relationship needs constant attention and
nourishment. I can’t mention any specific anecdotes, but we have had
our own share of roller coaster rides and it’s normal - we don’t
believe in the ’fairytale’ life. Marriage is about giving your partner
space; it’s about forgiving and forgetting.
Car racing
It was going well until 2003. I raced in five countries with good
finishes. I also manage to find time for aero-modeling. I thought that
when my films bombed, it was God’s way of telling me that I needed to
do something different. So I did fewer films, which unfortunately
didn’t do well and people blamed it on my racing. Luckily for me,
Varalaru and Parmasivan happened, which motivated me and kept me going.
Personal health
My first surgery was on circuit, but all others have been on my sets. It’s just that I’ve been very accident prone.
Media hiatus:
When a person is off the radar for sometime, people expect a reason for
it, but sometimes you don’t have a valid reason and people start
assuming things. So you either accept and live with it or suffer with
it. In this field only the most tolerant can survive. I’m very clear -
I’m acting for a living and it’s only my career - not my life.
Source: www.madrasplus.com


The star-studded Billa 2007 with Ajith, Namitha and Nayantara is progressing fast and would likely be one of Ajith’s best movies.
The upcoming Ajith-starrer Billa 2007 is strongly flavoured with the Thalai-sentiments and has completed an elaborate shooting schedule in Malaysia.



